It has been a while…
Here is how not to be: I was in a planning meeting today with a manager that was to my surprise, a jerk. While some things that came out of his mouth were reasonable, most were not. He had this idea that when expected completion dates were put on a task, a burrito was ‘bet’. In other words, if his subordinate didnt complete the task by the specified date, he or she would have to buy the manager a burrito. This was not only asinine, it was insulting. It wasnt a bet so to speak, but was more some kind of punishment that was designed so that he himself would benefit.
I guessed that his gruff, arrogant and sometimes rude behavior made him difficult to work for. In my 20+ years of working in the ‘real world’, I cant remember a manager that behaved this badly. He seemed to have some kind of ax to grind, something he was angry about, unrelated to the work at hand. He was also all over the place.
I am a firm believer in having fun at work–it should never be uncomfortable. I would quit before working for someone like him. It is just not worth it.
My guess is that karma will provide him with heart disease.